Sarah and Li were living together for a few years when they reached out for therapy. Sarah reported feeling frustrated by Li’s lack of interest in intimacy. Their difference in desire had resulted in anger and resentment that was undermining their otherwise strong relationship. Initially, Sarah came to therapy by herself, but then Li agreed she would attend a session. Once Li realized the therapist was not taking sides, she felt ready to commit to the process. The therapist helped Li and Sarah communicate and listen to each other’s feelings regarding their relationship and their intimacy. Equipped with a better understanding, and compassion, Sarah and Li were able to negotiate their differences and stop the cycle of conflict that threatened their relationship.
Sarah and Li
